Sunday, November 28, 2010

MONEY MAKES THE WORLD GO AROUND: Make sure you have your fair share around you!



OUR RELATIONSHIP WITH MONEYMoney is a fact of life – we cannot run away from it, but should we make money our God? – the end all and be all. Well whenever I have discussions about money, the concluding view is that we cannot really have a good life without money. In fact, life is often limited by the amount of money we have.
Not convinced, well look at how the English language refers to your job – it is called your LIVElihood. Your job gives you money and thus gives you the means to live. Hence, Livelihood.

MONEY MOTHERSWhat did your mother tell you about money? My mother used to always tell me that money does not grow on trees. that may be true, although the paper that we use is a product from trees. Money cocmes from a number of sources: inheritance, gifts, earnings. Beg, steal, borrow, earn or win – these are the various sources. We talk of breadwinners – the people who earn money.

CASH COWSWhether we like it or not, we have to find that cash cow if we want a plentiful supply of money for the whole of our life. Never waste your thoughts on what you don’t have, but instead focus on what you have and how you can use that and multiply that. The first cash cow is your mind because it can continuously produce ideas and plans of action. Some people focus on getting more, but a more productive way would be to focus on getting better and being more of yourself. Your outlook is crucial to a more plentiful future. A future focused on growth and creativity (I will make my life even better) is certainly more positive and more productive. If you focus on not having enough, the focus is on lack and limitation which is only brings frustration, but thinking about growth and creativity puts you in the vein of a greater positivity and a greater can do and will do attitude. Exchange frustration for satisfaction with this approach. The best is yet to come!

STANDARD OF LIVINGUsually if we have money, we have a high standard of living because we can buy material comforts. Actually it is our standard of living that is more important than money and is so much more than material possessions. At the end of the day, a magnificent life is one that overflows with joy and fulfilment. Thus raise your standard of living by doing something that makes your world and the world in general a nicer place. There is always something you can do to improve your life and its quality. Grab opportuntities for improvement and enjoy a better standard of living as you do.

MONEY MACHINE BLESSING
B:
Bless the money you have. Bless everything you have.
L: Love your life. Love and bless your life continuously.
E: Energize your life by believing you can raise your standard of living.
S: Standards of Living are more important than mere money in your pocket. Think how you can improve your standard of living.
S: Sources of money, income and wealth are diverse. Sources are streams of wealth: thinks numerous sources and work on increases your sources of income.

Y: Yearn to be accomplished, polished and professional, qualities that can propel you to greater wealth.
O: Overflowing with riches is our world: believe you can get your fair share.
U: Up your determination to be happy and content with the money you have, but that you will use it wisely to raise your standard of living.

GLOSSARY
Breadwinner
– a person who is the main earner in a household. Cash Cow an activity that produces money continuously. From the idea of milking a cow, there is milk every day.

DISCUSSION TIME – POST YOUR VIEWS
What did your mother tell you about money?
What idioms and proverbs do you know about money?
What idioms and proverbs about money are used in your country?

Saturday, November 27, 2010

SUCCESS WAITING TO HAPPEN: You can make it happen. Here’s how

SUCCESS WAITING TO HAPPENThere is a proverb that gives a warning: This is an accident waiting to happen. A dangerous situation has been created and it is inevitable that an accident will happen, sooner or later. Let’s reverse this idea and let us do all the things that will lead on to success. In other words, this is success waiting to happen. Very soon you will be successful or more successful.  

Shakespeare penned a similar idea: There is a time in the affairs of man when taken at the flood leads on to success. Shakespeare was referring to a power that we can all use to create success if we are on the right track.
Here is another proverb that also helps with remembering that there are many ways to achieve success: There is more than one way to skin a cat.

I failed all the way to success: is a quote by Thomas Edison, the inventor of the electric light bulb and the founder of the conglomerate that became General Electric. In other words, never give up, and if at first you don’t succeed look for other approaches that will lead on to success.

BLESS YOU WITH SUCCESS
B: Believe that you can be a success and Brim with ideas because it is ideas that kickstart the journey to success.
L: Let go of limiting beliefs. Limiting beliefs are mere doubts, so exchange these thoughts for more positive thoughts. Let them go, one by one and free yourself to make the most of every second. Learn to feel the limitless power of being.
E: Embrace the fullness of what is. Exchange excuses for a more exciting way of life.
S: See a wonderful world full of success, with you having your share of success.
S: Solve problems and create solutions, by develping more effective ways to do things. Substantive value is within you – draw it out, draw it out.
Y: You have opportunity right now. Are you going to let it pass you by or are you going to make full use of it?  You have an opportunity to make a difference.
O: Opportunities will come to fruition if you realize the opportunities of your life and live them with all you have.
U: Unfolding is a miracle if you will let it unfold.

BLESSING FOR SKYHIGH SUCCESS
B:
Blast your way to success with a success attitude.
L: Leverage yourself towards success with a never say die attitude.
E: Energize yourself with thoughts of success and actions that support these thoughts of success.
S: Success starts first as an attitude – your attitude to be successful.
S: Strong desires are the fuel of success.

Y: Yearn for success and act for success.
O: Open yourself up for more success
U: Usefulness is a laudable aim. Useful products and services will have a higher degree of success

Sunday, November 14, 2010

Love your Boss - it could work wonders for your career

LIFE IS NOT FAIR
Sometimes we can be so right yet so wrong. This philosophy applies in the work place. In parts of Asia, there is the belief that the Boss is always right or more accurately, The Boss always thinks he is right!
  TAKE A LEAF OUT OF THE BOOKS OF LAW STUDENTS
Law students are taught that they have to respect the office of judge even if they think the judge is an ass. It will serve you well if you respect the office of boss, even if you think he is an ass. Life is not fair. Yes the boss should respect you, but often he or she does not, but if you don't respect the boss, all you will get is conflict and sometimes the boot. Therefore always try where possible to flow with your bosses' thinking.
CHARITY BEGINS AT HOME
People often believe that giving to charity means giving to some external body. That may be true but the greatest charity is forgiving and being kind to those around us, including the boss. We often think the boss has a better life than us: more money, more perks, more power. But always remember he usually has more responsibility and has to worry more. He may have work responsibilities that we don't know about or we cannot even imagine. So before you sound off to the boss, consider how you can help him/her.

BLESSING FOR GREATER ENLIGHTENMENT
B: Bosses are humans, they have feelings. Bite the bullet and think about where he is coming from when he barks his orders.
L: Learn to keep your cool even in the most trying of circumstances.
E: Express yourself calmly and wisely when speaking to bosses and superiors. Eliminate the emotion and keep to the facts.
S: Smooth relations are infinitely superior to petty squabbles and scoring points.
S: Sincere suck ups are the way to go if you want better relations with the boss. 
Y: You should always remember the bigger picture: your career, your success, your peace of mind. Your relationship with the boss is important, make it the best you humanely can.
O: Often, the boss is an ass, often the person in authority is an ass. But they hold an office and someone thought they were up to it. You may know the truth, but the truth is not always accepted by your bosses and his bosses. So do yourself a favour and respect the office even if you can't respect the officer.
U: Use your time to focus on how to do a better job; that is a better use of time than bad mouthing the boss or useless banter and argy-bargies with the boss. Do the job and forget petty grievances about the boss. Unruly ways by the boss may be the bane of your life, but don't make them the death knell of your peace of mind and your career.

Sunday, November 7, 2010

Heads, Hearts and Sixth Sense: Harness these three powers for a better life.

WHAT IS SIXTH SENSE?
We have five physical senses: sight, hearing, touch, smell and taste. Such senses permit us to experience and enjoy the outer world. Our sixth sense is our intuition – the inner knowing part of us. In other words our inner wisdom. Certainly, it is a crucial part of us. In fact, sometimes it is the most important part of us because we can use it to really understand our surroundings, our world and also whether we are on the right track. Thus I want you to always think about what is your intuition telling you. When it is working at full capacity it is the part of you that is your guide and your inner and deeper wisdom.

HEART, SOUL AND MIND
We are ruled by our hearts and/or our heads. In fact, there is often a battle raging between our hearts and our heads and actually only level-headed people have the right balance between the two competing emotions. Enter the third source of emotion and that is our intuition. Some people may be surprised that intuition is an emotion, but yes it is a knowing emotion if we develop it and use it. If you don’t buy that, then I would say it is the wisdom to rule our emotions.  
MAKING THE BEST DECISIONS: Ask yourself three questions.
1. What does my heart say?
2. What does my head say?
3. What does my intuition say about what my heart and head are saying?

BLESSED WITH BETTER INTUITION. MAY YOU BE BLESSED WITH THE GREATER POWERS OF INTUITION.
B: Build up your inner world, so that you can better understand and operate in the outer world.
L: Lanugage extends to the inner world in the form of intuition. Learn to be in touch with your inner world of thoughts, feelings and the language of your intuition. Let it always send you guidance, and assist you to choose your highest path in every situation. Listen to your feelings more – this is the language of initution.
E: Enter a better world where you harness your heart, head and intuition to work for you in unison. Let intuition rule over your heart and head and you will make more enlightened decisions and be more enlightened.
S:  Serenity is achievable if you relax your body at a deep level and remain at the level of your most serene being.
S: Savor your inner world, becoming even more calmer and peaceful. See your mind as clear as a clear mountain lake, reflecting the thoughts of your higher mind. Soul, inner being and intuition are one. Soul vision is getting stronger and stronger, day by day when this becomes second nature to you.

Y: Yearn to be more by using initution more.  
O: Open up your intuition more to Operate at a deeper level of being called your intuition. Opening to receive, receive the loving, clear thoughts of your soul, higher self, higher mind, inner being and intutition.
U: Use your intuition to hear the messages, guidance and information from your soul and all the inner worlds within you.

BLESSINGS AND AFFIRMATIONS FOR GREATER INTUITION.
B: Blessed intutition works for me 24/7.
L: Love it, I love my lovely intuition.
E: Energized I am when I tune into my intuition. I always ask: What does my intutiton say.
S: Serene I am because my intuition is always working for my good.
S: Serene I am because I trust my intuition to give me the best guidance.

Y: Younger and timeless I feel, when I operate at the deepest levels of my intuition.
O: Overflowing with great guidance, I calmly assess my best Options.
U: Useable information is mine from the inner worlds of my mind, body and soul.

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