7 ways to experience joy in our relationships by Tayyiba Iram

1. CREATING JOY
Water your Relations with Purity, Love, Respect, Understanding, and Acceptance and give your best… And see and enjoy the fruits of relationship. ~Tayyiba Iram~

2. JOYFUL JOURNEYLet’s experience Joy in Our Relationships. We can do this when we have the intention to have joy in our relationships.

3. KILL THE “I”Being human all of us might have watered positives and negatives emotions/feelings to our relationships at different times.  We can change every bit of our relationship anytime whenever we are able to kill that part of us which says: Yes I was/Am Right.

4. POSITIVE CHANGE
Positive feelings are love, understanding, respect, patience and acceptance whereas Negative feelings are hatred, jealousy, anger and disrespect.

5. SOW THE BEST SEEDS
Our relationships are just like seeds. We are the gardener of these precious seeds. We harvest what we water our seeds with most. Remember patience and love always go together.

6. ESSENTIAL QUESTIONS
How can we save our seeds from negative waters?
How can we reap the crop of love?

7. WATCHFUL AWARENESS
First and foremost we should all be aware of ourselves and watch our own selves and what we are watering. We should also watch of other people’s behaviours which provoke us to water negative seeds.

Within families we should communicate that we will help each other water only positive seeds.
Of course it can only be done when you and your family member or partner are ready to listen with heart and be more open and understanding.

RELATIONSHIP RULES
We can add joy in our relationships by simply following these rules:

1-     Our words are like ointment for our relationships. Always appreciate genuinely with purity. Words when expressed through genuine care undoubtedly touch the souls of our dear ones. Always admire the good in them and make them realize how much you value them. Believe me it works wonders.

2-     When you have consciously or unconsciously hurt them - Do Apologize. We don’t ask forgiveness because we think it will make us feel small in their eyes. Do make some changes in the future so that this hurt might not take place further. It will increase trust in relationship.

3-     And then also open yourself to the other person that caused the hurt in you. Open with kindness and gentleness.  Talk to them. But we should be careful that our dialogue should not become a bitter session and blame or right/wrong game. The first duty of love is to listen. Listen with care, with patience, with understanding. End this sharing with a warm and loving hug. Witness Smiles in Hearts.

Let’s experience Joy in Our Relationships within families or friends. Love is all we have always.

Love is all about understanding and forgiveness.

If you are Pure; you will always have the Soul of your Counterpart.
If you Respect; you’ll always get the worth you Deserve.
If you are Understanding; you’ll always get the Loyalty you seek.
And When you Accept: You’ll have a package called “LOVE”

Pic and text credit: http://tayyibairam.wordpress.com/2012/07/26/lets-experience-joy-in-our-relationships/