Soft skills for a softer side of life by Tayyiba Iram. 10 ways to bring out your soft side
1. NEVER GIVE UP HOPE THAT BETTER DAYS ARE HERE TO COME
Everyday is a brand New Shiny start for a whole new Beginning.
For lasting changes to work we have to really embrace them.
The inner ones are the hardest ones of all.
When we make that change how rewarding it is.
If you can throw off the baggage you can lighten your steps.
2. PUT ON YOUR SOFTEST LISTENING EARS
The Foremost Duty of Love is to Listen.
Listen with your Heart.
Listening is such an Incredible Quality when you hear Hearts of your Dear Ones.
You are very well aware

- When we pray God listens to us.Rest in God (photo courtesy of Muhammad Haneef).
3. Rumi’s wisdom puts us in touch with the mature softer side of life
No mirror ever became Iron again
No bread ever became Wheat
No ripened grape ever became Sour fruit.
Mature yourself and Be Secure from a Change for the Worse.
Become the LIGHT. (Rumi)
4. More from Rumi on the softer side of life
Listen with the ears of Tolerance.
See through the eyes of Compassion.
Speak with the language of Love.
Be certain in the religion of Love.
There are no believers or unbelievers.
Love Embraces All. ~ Rumi ~

- Be certain in the religion of Love. (pic courtesy of Adil Lahorei)
5. Developing softer values is the greatest achievement in life
The Greatest Achievement is Selflessness.
The greatest Worth is Self-mastery.
The greatest Quality is seeking to Serve others.
The greatest Precept is Continual Awareness.
The greatest Medicine is the Emptiness of everything.
The greatest Action is not conforming with the worlds ways.
The greatest Magic is transmuting the Passions.
The greatest Generosity is Non-attachment.
The greatest Goodness is a Peaceful mind.
The greatest Patience is Humility.
The greatest Effort is Not concerned with Results.
The greatest Meditation is a mind that Lets go.
The greatest Wisdom is seeing through Appearances.
Atisha (11th century Tibetan Buddhist master)
6. Be full of softness
Never be so Full of yourself that you cannot feel the Emptiness of another.
~Rio Vergini ~
7. MOTHER TERESA EMBRACED A STEELY SOFTER SIDE OF LIFE
People are often unreasonable, illogical, and Self-centered; FORGIVE them anyway.
If you are KIND, People may Accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives; Be kind anyway.
If you are SUCCESSFUL, you will win some False friends and some true enemies; Succeed anyway.
If you are HONEST and FRANK, People may cheat you; Be honest and frank anyway.
What you spend Years building, someone could destroy over night; Build anyway.
If you find SERENITY and HAPPINESS, They may be jealous; Be happy anyway.
The GOOD you do today, people will often Forget tomorrow; Do good anyway.
Give the world the Best you have, and it may never be enough; Give the world the best you've got anyway.
You see, in the FINAL ANALYSIS, it is between YOU and GOD; It was never between you and them anyway.
I Just Love that Mother Teresa Said this... So Soothing, So Healing So Comforting...
8. JOY IS SOFT
I have ultimately found that the True source of Joy is in Giving and here Lies all Living.
9. ROAD TO GLORY
The shortest way to Glory is to be guided by Conscience.
~Henry Home~
What a Beautiful and precise path to Glory and Pride.
10. Accept all sides of life softly.
Accept as it is and be happy my friends. May Almighty ease your troubles. Aameen ♥

- The greatest Goodness is a Peaceful mind. Adil Lahorei enjoying the sunset in Kahsmir.
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